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Reader Comments about Sexuality Articles by Al Link and Pala Copeland
Comments about "Freeing the Female Orgasm"
“Great article. Very informative.”
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“OH MY GOD, YOU GUYS KNOW YOUR SH*T...I was with my girlfriend the other night, and after I did these techniques with her, we didn't even have intercourse...sure, i was disappointed that we didn't, but hey, i felt a lot better that I am able to perform on the same sexual level as my partner...THANX FOR THE TIPS!”
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“This article is very very informative.”
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This site is so awesome!! I want to commend all you ladies who are searching to find ways to let loose and enjoy sex for your husbands sakes. Up until 2 months ago, I was strictly an old fashioned gal, and it took almost losing my man, to change my way of thinking about lovemaking. Its not sex when you are in love with each other, its only sex if you make it that. Its lovemaking and its wonderful! I use to always want to have sex w/hubby, but got a bad mind set during a prolonged illness. (I say sex, because I wasn't giving him my soul, like now)I had never been very open to oral sex, and was robbing my hubby of something he desired as much as air. I have done a total flip around, and truly I have tasted pleasure I had never known, and its the same for him. We have experienced thrills that we didn't know were possible. We are now Best Friends, and lovers. Thats what I had always wanted, but wouldn't let loose long enough to find it. To all the women out there who are holding back, "I say to you, let her rip!" You will find that intimate relationship you have so desired. Not many men can resist a woman who loves him and wants to please him. They need to know you find them desirable, and irrisistible. Remember, I once heard, and now know it to be true, "A woman's sex organ is in her mind." If I can find freedom to lovemaking, anybody can.”
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“You guys know your stuff! Very helpful information indeed and successful at that!”
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“I think this is the best thing I've come across on line so far, as far as women and orgasm are concerned. I have a hard time having orgasms during lovemaking, mostly since the death of my husband three years ago. I realize now how much of it is me, and my thinking and distractions during lovemaking. I have a lover now who I love dearly, but orgasm through intercourse alone is elusive and makes him feel less of a lover. I use a vibrator sometimes and will orgasm, but I think this makes him feel even worse because he's not doing it all himself. *((MEN))! He's actually the best I've ever known! I plan on letting him read all of this-it's great, thanks.”
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“Great Article! I'm 70 and learned a lot of new things to try to make sex even better.”
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“I used to never have orgasms. I read enough books about sexuality and I connected the fact that if the pelvic floor and the anal and genital muscles are constricted all of the time, then orgasms are almost impossible. When this is happening, there is no blood or energy flow to the genital area it makes sex more of an amusing but sometimes boring exercise. Once I began to relax the muscles in that area, as well as doing some energy exercises, I not only began to have orgasms, but I can have multiple amounts of them.”
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“Very well written, with a lot of common sense and awareness. Makes one feel normal-thank you!”
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“I have just printed out a copy of your article "Freeing the Female Orgasm". I intend to show the section on Stimulation Techniques to any future partners... You'd be amazed how many men out here don't have a clue how women’s bodies work and this will save me a lot of time and effort in teaching them! Thanks.”
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“I have enjoyed reading this article on freeing the female orgasm and I thank you for the clarity and common sense material which was presented. I myself masturbate on and off due to sexual abuse in the past, and I know all about clitoral orgasms and would tell the love of my life in the future just how to satisfy me. I believe the article is correct when it tells the readers, women have to allow themselves to experience orgasm and the men are not fully responsible for their orgasm. You always have to hold up your end of the bargain in everything in life-sex included. So, if a woman just will relax and allow herself to feel, and tell the man what she likes and doesn't like and be honest, she is holding up her end of the bargain and now she can be satisfied.”
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“Thank You! This information is golden.”
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“About three years ago, I had a heartbreaking end of an eight year relationship with a man, and surprisingly enough, our sex was great right up until the end. But since our breakup, I haven't been with anyone, until last November. I realized from being with this new, wonderful man just how "out of practice" I was. I just wish we didn't live thousands of miles apart. I know this man is very understanding and patient, but I don't want to lose him, and I'd like to have better sex with him. I really appreciate articles like this to help me gain confidence once more. I've neglected my sexual needs far too long, and I'm looking forward to a more fulfilling life.”
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“I had been looking for this information. I fully enjoy my relations with my husband and I do have orgasms but I needed to know how to have even more. ThankYou.”
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“Wow!!! What a great article, man I hope the men are paying attention!”
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“Unfortunately I have never had an orgasm, even after two children, I had become very disappointed and frustrated. Now that I have read your article I know what to focus my attention on, and hopefully it will work. Thank you.”
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“My boyfriend and I were having trouble with my sexual stimulation. This article really helped a lot. We both read it and now understand more about what we were doing wrong and how we can overcome this problem.”
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“I really enjoyed your article!!! It fits my wife and I to a "T". I'm going to try what you have explained to try to make our sex life more enjoyable for both of us. Keep writing articles like this one-VERY GOOD!”
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“This is the best article for men and women. Both people in a relationship need to read stuff like this to help them relax and have fun with sex. It isn’t supposed to be a job but an adventure.”
******************************************* Freeing the Female Orgasm was very informative. I really enjoyed reading it, I am only sorry I didn't discover it sooner! I appreciate what you are trying to do, I hope to read more of your work soon.
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Wow.... that's all I can say right now. I recently married. I didn't marry him because of what he could do to my body, but because he is a wonderful person that cares about me as a person. Together, we are wonderful.
I was looking around the web today in search of what my body is going through. I didn't teach myself about orgasms until I was about 35 (afraid it was "ugly") and then I couldn't keep my hands off myself.
Then I met my now husband and boom! I have at least three different kinds of orgasms every time we make love. I have told my husband that he has pleased me in so many ways that I did not know existed. Now I want to know more about me and my body. So anyway, I stumbled upon your article and the whole time I was saying "yes - that's it".
I don't usually write authors, but I felt you needed to be written. I will pass this article on to my friends, sexually free and not, in hopes that they will feel good about themselves and/or learn more about themselves.
Thank you so much. You answered all my questions in one article.
Sincerely,
DawnDefinitely not a problem with quoting me. I have included a reply I received (from my stepmother) after forwarding your article to my friends and family. Thanks again for such a wonderful and enlightening article.
Keep up the good work.
Dawn"Great article, Dawn! I've read a lot about sex over the years, but that was the best one about women and their thinking regarding sex, etc. that I've seen."
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Comments on articles in general
I'm currently working on an informational packet about the benefits of sex primarily focused on it's ability to maintain, and in some cases lose, weight). I recently came across your website and was amazed by the voluminous amounts of information that the two of you have amassed. Your credentials far outweigh my own, being as I have but only a few (none as specific as yours), so I felt it would be a wise move on my behalf to ask for your permission to quote two of your articles. The articles that I found most beneficial were "Sex Stats," from the Fall 2000 issue of Urban Male Magazine and "The Health Benefits of Sex" from the Summer 2000 issue of the same magazine. Naturally, I would borrow more heavily from the article pertaining to health benefits, while the secondary article would accommodate the sections concerning the basic, yet always interesting, sexual statistics. I would always quote your research directly, giving you full credit and the appropriate citation, and, if you do decide to oblige my request, I would be more than willing to include a endorsing blurb about your website, tantra-sex.com, within the packet itself. The packet, once completed, will not only be a summary of information regarding the life altering benefits of fulfilling sex, but it will also champion more meaningful relationships, advocating an equal amount of intimacy for every dose of pure sexual activity. Tantric Sex seems to be the logical choice in obtaining both intimate understanding and sexual fulfillment, so its philosophy would mesh well with the message I'm trying to send. It would not only be to my benefit, but also my extreme pleasure to offer your advice within my packet.Back to the Tantra Articles Page
Thank you for your thoughtful, intelligent, and informative responses and articles. I have read the articles you posted on the "Sacred Sex-the Art of Tantra" website, and listened to the Love Bytes message from Bob Berkowitz' website.
Your words were moving, and created a sense of resonance within me.
While I am not currently in relationship. I am open, having placed into the Universe the creative Energy of Meeting my mate. I've joined the Exotic Personals and Soulmate sections on your site, BTW.
When this occurs, I intend to participate in a weekend at your site in Canada.
There is so much warmth, generosity and realness generating from you, that it feels as though one is embrace by you. Thank You.
Lovingly, Dari
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