RELATIONSHIP

The Alchemy of Love and Lust Theresa Crenshaw, MD Identifies the role our hormones play in the different sexual stages, exploring the age-old concept of chemistry between the sexes and how hormones can determine the course of human relationships. Availability: This title usually ships within 24 hours. Published by G. Putnam & Sons ~ 1996 Order now

Embracing the Beloved : Relationship As a Path of Awakening by Stephen Levine, Ondrea Levine Stephen and Ondrea create a roadmap for lovers who want to make relationships that are in themselves a spiritual path. With inspiring stories and exercises, based on their personal experience. Availability: This title usually ships within 24 hours. Paperback ~ Published by Anchor Books ~ February 1996 Order now

Getting the Love You Want : A Guide for Couples by Harville Hendrix Harville Hendrix provides a practical method for understanding how you relate to your mate and why you relate that way. He helps you find, and change, the causes of your unhealthy responses in relationship situations so that you can truly get the love you both want. Reissue Edition ~ Paperback, 320 pages ~ Published by Harperperennial Library: February 1992

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus : A Practical Guide for Improving Communication and Getting What You Want in Your Relationships by John Gray It's easy to see why John Gray's "Mars/Venus" approach to male/female relations has become so popular. He works from the perspective that there are general emotional differences in today's men and women which influence how they interact. Then he provides practical advice on how to communicate effectively in a relationship by understanding and accommodating those differences. The book is written with freshness, humour and simplicity. Availability: This title usually ships within 24 hours. Hardcover, 304 pages ~ Published by Harpercollins: June 1992 Order now

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Light Her Fire : How to Ignite Passion and Excitement in the Women You Love by Ellen Kreidman A Reader's Comments: This book changed the relationship with my wife. I started following the authors advice and doing small things for my partner, acknowledging her more, and trying harder to understand her position and IT WORKED. This is a must book for any man who would like to have a long term, fullfilling relationship with his spouse. One of my all time favorite books!!! Availability: This title usually ships within 2-3 days Paperback ~ Reprint edition ~ Dell Books: February 1992 Order now

Light His Fire : How to Keep Your Man Passionately and Hopelessly in Love With You by Ellen Kriedman Reader from Texas: This book (as corny as it sounds) changed my life. It has not only improved my relationships with men as a whole, but moreover, it improved my relationship with myself. The book teaches you how to respect yourself, how to develop self-confidence and as a direct result thereof, be a better wife/girlfriend/lifetime companion. It allows a small, but meaningful and oh so necessary, glance into your heart, mind and soul. Availability: This title usually ships within 24 hours. Paperback ~ Dell Books: February 1991 Order now

Acupressure for Lovers : Secrets of Touch for Increasing Intimacy by Michael Reed Gach Michael Gach teaches you new and delightful ways to rediscover your lover's body. Please them with your tender touch as you awaken their senses, open their energy pathways, and help to heal every inch! Availability: This title usually ships within 24 hours. Paperback, 304 pages ~ Published by Bantam Books: February 1997 Order now

SEXUALITY

Tantra, Tao and Energy

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TANTRA, TAO & ENERGY

The Lover Within : Opening to Energy in Sexual Practice by Julie Henderson, Ph. D. "This is the best manual for learning to work with your sexual energy that we have used." Al Link & Pala Copeland, 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra This widely acclaimed, brilliantly written book can alter both how we think about love and sex and what we do in intimate practice. The focus is neither on manipulative technique nor personal history, but on the process of energy itself. It provides exercises to be experienced alone or with a partner and offers insight into how to move energy, collect it, heighten it, and share it. This updated edition adds new exercises and reader testimonials. This expanded edition includes a new chapter on working with the energy of feeling through Movement, Breath, and Sound. Order Now

The Multi-Orgasmic Couple : Sexual Secrets Every Couple Should Know by Mantak Chia (Editor), Maneewan Chia, Douglas Abrams Rachel ca Abrams "I would consider this the best guide for couples to the art of sacred sexuality available to date." Al Link, 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra From the bestselling authors of The Multi-Orgasmic Man comes an extraordinary new book for couples. You and your partner will discover how to have multiple whole-body orgasms and how to reach ever more fulfilling levels of intimacy and ecstasy together. There are no complicated theories--The MultiOrgasmic Couple is for real couples everywhere. With tips for fine-tuning your sexual skills that are guaranteed to drive your partner wild, this is quite simply the best ever straight-talking guide for couples you'll ever read. Order Now

The Art of Sexual Ecstasy : The Path of Sacred Sexuality for Western Lovers by Margo Anand, Leandra Hussey (Illustrator) This book is a complete sacred sex course in itself. It is particularly suited for couples who want to open up to each other emotionally as well as physically. There are lots of meditations, activities and exercises which are well-described. Ms. Anand's approach is very much "whole person" and for those who want to progress at their own pace over a period of time, together, it works very well. Availability: This title usually ships within 24 hours. Reprint Edition ~Paperback ~ Published by J P Tarcher: January 1991 Order now

Sexual Secrets : The Alchemy of Ecstasy by Nik Douglas, Penny Slinger This popular book (over 1 million copies sold!) presents a concise and articulate overview of the history and philosophy of sacred sex. It also has good exercises and meditations interspresed throughout. It will work well for people who like to know the background of what they are doing, and would like to pick and choose and create on their own the activities they will do in their exploration. It overflows with wonderful erotic drawings by Penny Slinger. 10th Anniversary Edition ~ Paperback ~ Published by Inner Traditions Intl Ltd: November 1989

The Essential Tantra: A Modern Guide to Sacred Sexuality by Kenneth Ray Stubbs, Illustrated by Kyle Spencer & Richard Stodart, J P Tarcher, 2000 This was the Tantra book featured in the popular movie, American Pie 2. This is three books in one: Tantric Massage, Sensual Ceremony, and an expanded edition of Sacred Orgasms. All three of the original editions are now out of print. The book is well illustrated. Dr. Stubbs has written way to many books to list them all here, plus a large number of excellent videos. Do a search on Amazon.com for Kenneth Ray Stubbs for a complete listing. Much of his work emphasizes sensual/sexual massage. Order Now

Sexual Energy Ecstasy: A Practical Guide to Lovemaking Secrets of the East and West by David and Ellen Ramsdale, Bantam New Age Books 1993 This informative and accessible book is the product of more than twenty years of research by sacred sexuality teachers David and Ellen Ramsdale. A treasury of Eastern and Western sexual secrets, it features hundreds of proven methods from around the world to help couples enjoy physical and spiritual lovemaking. Order now

Tantra Magazine: ANCIENT SEXUALITY MANUALS in electronic format For hundreds of years these three books were THE manuals for sexual education. They contain invaluable information and insight. Read them carefully because they remain today as valuable now as they were in the past. Kama Sutra, Translated by, Sir Ricahrd F. Burton, 1883 Ananga Ranga, Translated by, Sir Ricahrd F. Burton Perfumed Garden of the Shaykh Nefwazi, Translated by, Sir Ricahrd F. Burton, 1886

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Voluntary Ejaculation and Male Multiple Orgasm eBook Instruction Manual for Masculine Sexual Mastery by Al Link & Pala Copeland Most ordinary men believe that ejaculation is the best part of sex. But there is something better—orgasms without any ejaculation at all. It is possible to have many orgasms in a single session of lovemaking, none of which includes an ejaculation. Furthermore, if you end lovemaking while you still have desire, in other words without ejaculating, you will super-boost your immune system and increase your physical energy, mental creativity, emotional resilience and spiritual quickening. Orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing. Using simple techniques that we explain here, any ordinary man can experience orgasms without ejaculating. Any male who learns how to do this will achieve alpha male status, radiating a masculine charisma that is irresistible to women. You do not already have to be a super-stud to learn how eBook, Internet Interactive Edition with: 102 Pages; Photos & Line Drawings; 125 Internal Links & 190 External Links Order now

Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery eBook by Somraj Pokras of Tantra At Tahoe Says Somraj: This ebook teaches you "how to give any woman absolute pleasure for as long as SHE wants while you experience more ecstasy than you ever imagined possible. Learn to sexually satisfy your partner completely. Join the ranks of the world's longest lasting lovers. Every woman wants her man to learn these totally explicit techniques that cure premature ejaculation problems NOW Order now

Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy by Mantak Chia, Michael Winn Mantak Chia is a master who gives detailed descriptions of the "how-to" of moving sexual energy. The methods he proposes are very disciplined, so work best for people who like structure and have lots of patience and self-discipline. This book is also good for individuals, not in relationship, because so much of the work is done on one's own. Because Chia's work derives from the Taoist tradition (as opposed to Tantric) there is more emphasis on the physical and practical than the mystical, emotional aspects of the work. Availability: This title usually ships within 24 hours. Paperback, 285 pages ~ Published by Samuel Weiser: September 1984 Order now

The Multi-Orgasmic Man : Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know by Mantak Chia, Douglas Abrams Arava The Multi-Orgasmic Man is an excellent step-by-step how-to manual for achieving sexual ecstasy. Don't let the title fool you, this book is for women as well as men. Here are some quotes from the book that describe the benefits of Sexual Kung Fu. But to get the benefits you have to do the work. This book shows you how to do the work. I have used the techniques, which are also in Chia's more advanced earlier text, Cultivating Male Sexual Energy, for the past 12 years. My partner and I now teach workshops to pass on the word. Availability: This title usually ships within 24 hours. 10th Anniversary Edition ~ Paperback ~ 256 pages ~ Published by Harper San Francisco: May 1997 Order now

Ejaculation Control Manual for Extended Lovemaking by David Routh and Tom Newhouse This book gives instructions and exercises to help a man learn how to maintain an erection indefinitely for extended lovemaking.

How to Make Love All Night (And Drive a Woman Wild : Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking) by Barbara Keesling A reader from California: When I first saw the title, I sneered. But curiosity impelled me to at least give it a glance. Dr. Keesling is not kidding. This book is no joke. It is a clear, systematic, organized approach to what for most men is only a daydream. It is also an approach to what a good many women have said in no uncertain terms was just what they wanted. It is also outrageously funny. But do what she says and it will work! Availability: This title usually ships within 24 hours. Paperback - 192 pages ~ Reprint edition ~ HarperCollins Publishers: August 1995 Order now

How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation by Helen Singer Kaplan Booknews, Inc: Guidance for the layman by a respected professional. Availability: This title usually ships within 24 hours. Paperback ~ 126 pages ~ Brunner/Mazel Publishers: March 1989 Order now

The New Male Sexuality by Bernie Zilbergeld, Ph.D. Synopsis: The extraordinary successor to the classic Male Sexuality, which has more than 600,000 copies in Bantam mass market print. Unlike other books on sexuality, this guide pulls together the latest information on sexual dysfunction, enhancing pleasure, and improving communication between men and women. Availability: This title usually ships within 24 hours. Paperback ~ Bantam Books (Mm): July 1, 1984 Order now

The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire The Way of the Superior Man is David Deida's primary sourcebook on masculine spiritual practice. This is a must read for every man who wants to live a life of integrity, authenticity, and freedom. Learn how essential it is to know your purpose in the world. Discover the importance of challenge in your life. Understand how your masculine direction gifts your woman as much as her attractive radiance gifts you.

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For Yourself : The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality by Lonnie Garfield Barbach From the Publisher: An excellent, reassuring book for women and their partners. It carries the woman along step-by-step in the rediscovery of her own sexuality and the pleasure it will bring her. Liberated or not, single or married, young or old, all women will find this book accessible and supportive Mass Market Paperback Reissue edition (September 1991) New Amer Library

Ordinary Women, Extraordinary Sex : Every Woman's Guide to Pleasure and Beyond by Dr. Sandra R. Scantling, Sue Browder Synopsis: Noted sex therapist Sandra Scantling shows how any woman can tap her latent sexual energy to enjoy ever-richer levels of sexual fulfillment. Ordinary Women, Extraordinary Sex focuses on identifying barriers to pleasure and expanding a woman's capacity for sexual enjoyment. Paperback ~ Reissue edition ~ Plume Books: September 1994

The Woman's Book of Orgasm : A Guide to the Ultimate Sexual Pleasure by Tara Barker (Editor) Synopsis: This complete guide to everything women have ever wanted to know about the Big O and how to make it work for them is packed with information, from how an orgasm works to what women wish men knew about the female body and the female orgasm. Throughout the book, women talk openly about how they reach orgasm, what works (and what doesn't) for them, and describe in detail how their orgasms feel. Illustrations Paperback ~192 pages ~ Published: March 1998

Becoming Orgasmic : A Sexual and Personal Growth Program for Women by Julia Heiman, Joseph Lopiccolo Availability: This title usually ships within 2 - 3 days. Paperback ~ Rev&Expnd edition ~ Simon & Schuster: January 1988 Order now

Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving by Betty Dodson In an honest, witty, and reassuring guide, noted sex authority and feminist Betty Dodson reveals her innovative techniques for helping men and women accept masturbation as a joyful and essential expression of their sexuality. Illustrations. Order now

Female Ejaculation & the G-Spot by Deborah Sundahl "In this excellent book, the foremost expert on female ejaculation offers up every bit of wisdom imaginable.... Highly recommended." Good Vibrations, Goodvibes.com, 2003 Order now

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100 Ways To Keep Your Lover eBook by Al Link & Pala Copeland We make everything you need to live the good life--a sensual sexy romantic life--only a simple click away with this proactive and interactive ebook. It is proactive in that we encourage you to take positive action to put love, passion and romance at the center of your life together. We have distilled the essence of nurturing relationship, keeping monogamy hot, and sustaining passionate romance into 100 sexy activities you can implement immediately. We tell you exactly what to do. All of these ideas and activities are quite simple. They are imaginative and daring. Internet interactive edition with: 78 pages; 111 erotic photos & illustrations; 138 hot link Order now

Intimacy: A Green Light for Red Hot Sex and a Lifetime of Loving eBook by Dr. Jeffre TallTrees and Orv. Fry The playbook, is a step-by-step, reader-friendly approach to the TOTAL relationship. It's jam-packed with wise, useful information about the essential points of your love relationship. It has over 40 carefully thought-out practices addressing every aspect needed to change your love life forever, creating deeper intimacy and hotter sex. Order now

50 Ways to Please Your Lover : While You Please Yourself by Lonnie Garfield Barbach For men or women, long-standing partners or newly intimate couples, 50 Ways to Please Your Lover offers the opportunity for new pleasures, renewed enthusiasm, and very pleasant surprise.

For Each Other: Sharing Sexual Intimacy by Lonnie Garfield Barbach Synopsis: A famed psychologist/sex therapist/author gives women a complete program for dealing with the complex aspects of a relationship--physical and psychological--that affect sexual satisfation. "A book to use and refer to over and over again."--Siecus Report. Availability: This title usually ships within 24 hours. Paperback Order now

The Complete Kama Sutra : The First Unabridged Modern Translation of the Classic Indian Text by Alain Danielou Times Literary Supplement: Danielou's new and complete translation of the Kama Sutra is one of his masterpieces. It is all enchantment, a world of refined sensation totally without humbug. Our debt to his scholarship and humanity is immeasurable. Availability: This title usually ships within 24 hours. Paperback ~ Inner Traditions International: September 1995 Order now

ESO: How You and Your Lover Can Give Each Other Hours of Extended Sexual Orgasm by Alan P. Brauer, Donna Brauer A reader from San Francisco: Excellent book! I found that this book was very helpful with good illustrations and techniques for singles and married couples. I thoroughly enjoyed it and would heartily recommend it.

Finding God Through Sex: A Spiritual Guide to Ecstatic Loving and Deep Passion for Men and Women Finding God Through Sex is an advanced and unprecendented guide to living intimate relationship as a deep spiritual practice. How do you stay open during sex or navigate your partners needs or moods? How do you unkink your sexual desires or love your partner beyond neediness and separation? How do you ravish each other to God? With individual sections written to women and to men, this amazing book truly lives up to its title.

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