Helping couples create love
for a lifetime together

Do you want to discover how to:

  • explore the Tantra way of living and the Tantra way of loving?
  • develop a connection that satisfies through and through?
  • become a skillfull, sensitive, sensational lover?
  • bring sensual-spiritual pleasure to every aspect of your life?
  • expand your consciousness through the power of love?
  • become the best you can be, together?

 

Al and Pala

You’ll find the secrets here. We're relationship and sexuality mentors Al Link and Pala Copeland. We've been practicing Tantric, Taoist and Kama Sutra lovemaking since 1987 and hosting romantic Tantra weekend retreats since 1997. Loving and learning as we go, we're on a joyous journey of awakening to Enlightenment for Two™. Join us on this unique spiritual path.

 

"Al and Pala teach couples how to have the best sex of their lives." Discovery Channel, The Sex Files

 

Tantra teaches the totality of life: listening to your body, opening your heart, merging into the space of consciousness. This website shares our dreams, our knowledge and our experience with you. Refer to our four books and five electronic books that instruct and inspire you about Tantra, relationships, sacred lovemaking, spirituality, and the Kama Sutra. Watch a video of our selected TV interviews. Learn more about us. . . .

 

Tantra ebook

 

Take a look at our brand new book: 28 Days to Ecstasy for Couples: Tantra Step by Step. Now also available as a fully illustrated, downloadable eBook!

 

Host of Oxygen TV's popular Talk Sex, the world-renowned Sue Johanson, says 28 Days "is a great one. . . Recommended reading even if you have no intention of practicing tantric sex."

 

Free Kama Sutra eBook

 

More eBooks: Kama Sutra, Tantric & Taoist Sexuality, Relationships

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100 Ways To Keep Your Lover

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Voluntary Ejaculation & Male Multiple Orgasm

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Tantra & Kama Sutra Positions

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Awakening Women's Orgasm for Women & their Partners

Love Secrets
Sensual Love Secrets for Couples

 

Interactive, Extensively illustrated, Bonus Exercises
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Workshops

The ancient arts of sacred loving are becoming a path of choice for many modern westerners seeking sensual fulfillment and spiritual awakening. They provide practical answers to questions people are increasingly asking:

  • How can we maintain a passionate lovelife?
  • How can we grow together as individuals and as partners?
  • How can we incorporate a spiritual focus into our lives?
  • How can we stay healthy, vigorous, and vibrant as long as possible?

If you want to find these answers and maintain love and romance together for as long as you live, you'll discover how at our weekend retreat—just like these happy couples have! Read their comments about our workshops.

 

Intimacy Seminars

 

See the detailed schedule of all our workshops.
Online registration. On a tight budget? We offer reduced rate stand-by registration for our Couples Weekends.

 

Tantra Tips & Special Announcements

This Month: Ritual and Ceremony - excerpted from our book 28 Days to Ecstasy for Couples. Available at amazon.com

 

Tantrism proposes that man and God are an undivided unity (non-dual). God is everything, therefore you, and everyone and everything else, are also God. Nothing is separate from God because separation implies dualism. This differs from pantheism, which suggests there is one God and everything is part of God. In Tantrism everything is not part of God, everything is God.

 

Consider a hologram as an analogy to help understand this concept. Holography is a photographic method in which light from three different sources is reflected from an object onto a surface, capturing the image in three dimensions. When light is shone through that recorded image, a lifelike object appears—it may seem as if a real person were standing before you. If you cut the original recorded image in half and shine the light through it, you still get the full image. In other words, each part of the image, however small, contains one hundred percent of the whole image.

 

Because we are in bodily form, we perceive the world as dual and use dualistic concepts to help us understand its nature. So in Tantric practice, although everything is God, Shiva and Shakti are pictured as its masculine and feminine aspects. Shiva is fundamental, unchanging consciousness and Shakti is the creative face of this consciousness, the energy of life. During Tantric lovemaking, lovers become the god and goddess, Shiva and Shakti, and in their union reconnect with the essential Self. In a sense, you remember who you really are. Tantric rituals and ceremonies help you to transcend the limited perception of self as separate individual and to reunite with everything. You aren’t just a two dimensional, flat photo, you’re the holographic all.

 

With all Tantric ceremonies and rituals, it is most important that you cultivate a state of consciousness characterized by love, adoration, and worship. You surrender to your highest Self and open to welcome an infusion of bliss as you remember that you are Shiva/Shakti. You can enhance any ceremonial practice by abstaining from sexual intercourse for one or more days beforehand. Fasting will also heighten your awareness and receptivity to the cosmic energy. The longer the preparation period of sexual abstinence and fasting, the more intense your ritual will be. Historically, Tantric practitioners also use intoxicating substances to enhance their experience. They also employ earthly materials in their rituals as symbols of divine qualities.

 

Tantric rituals generally involve the preparation of a sacred space, bathing, relaxing the body, clearing the mind with meditation and slow, deep breathing, sending out evil and inviting in love, focusing on the ultimate purpose of the ritual (union with Shiva/Shakti), and giving thanks to each other for honoring god and goddess in this manner.

 

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Radio Interviews

Radio Interviews

Get information about Tantric lovemaking and successful relationships by listening to some of the many radio broadcasts we've been featured on.

 

Topics include: "All About Tantra," "Ejaculation Mastery and Male Multiple Orgasms," "Freeing the Female Orgasm," "The 9 Steps of Tantric Sex," "Becoming Fit for Relationships" and more. Interviews are in mp3 format.

 

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We got a "QUALITY" rating on Jane's Guide, just look in her Regional Guide under Ontario. Jane should be your first stop for face-to-face sex-info on the internet.

Jane says: “This couple puts on nearly weekly tantra workshops in their home or other Ontario f acilities. They describe each workshop and have a schedule posted for the next 6 months. Registration can be done online. They also have bios about themselves and a pictorial tour of their home facility. They also post resources for anyone interested in exploring this art. Everything from books, videos to other websites. Basically whether you are local or not this is a great place to start a search for the spirituality of tantra.”

 

Pala & Al's Services

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  • Couples Weekend Introduction to Tantric Lovemaking and Spiritual Relationship.

    Next date: June 6-8

  • Couples Level II

    Next date: August 29-31

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  • Evening Seminars for singles or couples Next date: June 23
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