The Multi-Orgasmic Man, Mantak Chia & Douglas Abrams Arava
"We would never think of learning to cook without some guidance or a cookbook or two, but in lovemaking, which is certainly as complex as cooking, Western men and women are forced to discover for themselves the mysterious world of sex with only a few hopelessly romanticized images from the movies and television to guide them."
"Hollywood sex is not good sex; it is just fast sex. [It]...would be laughable if it did not leave so many viewers trying to imitate this unrealistic model of lovemaking."
"...if ejaculation is no longer the goal, and you can have orgasms without ejaculation, then most ejaculations are by definition premature, or at least superfluous."
"Almost 80 percent of the men Kinsey studied ejaculated less than two minutes after entering their partner."
"As one multi-orgasmic man put it, 'Once I ejaculate, the pillow looks better than my girlfriend does.'"
"One multi-orgasmic man explained, 'After I ejaculated I didn't want to and didn't understand her need to caress and talk after sex. Now that I don't ejaculate, after lovemaking I love for us to lie together and caress each other slowly, almost in sort of a meditation."
"...two or three inches of the penis is rooted inside the body in the...PC muscle - and it is possible...to strengthen this muscle for stronger erections, stronger orgasms, and better ejaculatory control."
"You and your partner can make love as long as you want."
"Don't forget to let your erection decrease some around every twenty minutes so the blood can re-circulate."
"But the truth is that the size of your erection is much less important than its strength and what you do with it. If you practice Sexual Kung Fu, you will have ample confirmation that you are 'man enough' for any woman....Once you are multi-orgasmic, you will be able to satisfy your partner no matter how long she takes to orgasm."
"In Sexual Kung Fu, there is no such thing as 'impotence,' and by using the solo exercises to strengthen your erections and the Soft Entry technique in lovemaking, you should never have to worry about it again."
"Ejaculatory orgasm may seem like a thrilling ride, but after you experience the prolonged and ecstatic sexual aerobatics of multiple orgasms, this ejaculatory descent will seem pretty tame and, by comparison, pretty disappointing."
"...you can learn not only to experience multiple orgasms, but also to expand your orgasms from your genitals to your brain to your entire body."
"The experience is often so intense that people resort to mystical language (using phrases like 'oneness with the universe') that is difficult to understand if you have not experienced what is being described."
"...you may also feel your sexual energy circulate through her and her sexual energy circulate through you. Eventually you may feel as if the physical boundaries between the two of you dissolve....you will learn how to return to this place regularly with your partner and even by yourself. This kind of sexual union with another person and between yourself and the universe can actually result in a transformation of consciousness. It is for this reason that sexuality in the East has often been seen as part of the spiritual path, and not as something opposed to it."
"It is no secret that most people experience transcendence more intensely in their bedrooms than they do in their churches, synagogues, temples or mosques."
"Sexual Kung Fu is quite easy to learn, and many men start feeling very powerful in bed, but it must not become a power trip. Power is about conquest, which is the opposite of love and any real spiritual practice."
"In learning to satisfy your partner, however, the first thing you must do is remove your ego. You are not 'giving' her an orgasm. You are not trying to be the best lover she has ever had. Too many men get caught up with sexual performance. If you are able to replace performance with pleasure - hers and yours - you will be able to satisfy even the lustiest of lovers."
"...there is a challenge with multiple partners: the practices given in this book require a profound connection of body, heart, mind, and spirit, which is difficult to achieve with even one partner, let alone many. According to the Tao, one profound sexual union, gay or straight, is better than countless superficial ones."
"But monogamy is much more than an onerous requirement of the times. With the right partner, it can be a crucible for a most powerful alchemical process of physical pleasure, emotional intimacy, and spiritual growth."
"In the West, we take for granted that couples will lose their passion for one another over the years, but according to the Tao this is not a law of nature and in fact this attraction never needs to wither."
"...according to the Tao, sex is a lifelong activity that is possible and desirable until the day you die."
"But there is one difference between sex and sports with regard to aging: your ability in bed may actually improve."
Order now Back to the Bookstore
EMAIL | MAIN PAGE