Wonderful Words from Trevor and Elizabeth
“We've been wanting to email you for some time now. I'm finally making myself stop what I am doing here at work and do it. (The farm season is over, and so now I'm working at St. Bonaventure University doing various things that keep me in my head and in ideas - very different than farming. Tantra puts me back into my body! The news we wanted to share was that we are with child!!!
Yes, we found out in September - conception happening, we think, on July 31st, the first time Elizabeth would have been fertile after our Tantra weekend. Crazy, huh? I think we shared with you a bit, our efforts and discouragements regarding Elizabeth's cycle. If not, or if memory fails, she went over a year with cycling and then another 6 months. We were trying many things, both conventional and natural medicine-wise. When we moved to NY two years ago, we had the priority of balancing her body and spirit. All done with the hopes of fertility and birth. Well, it happened. She was cycling regularly for the last 5 months, and then when we finally learned to move our love into ecstasy (thanks to some great teachers), our love created another life. Amazing!!
The child should be due in April (around the 23rd). We are hoping to have the child in our home with a midwife. Send good energy our way. Thank you - in advance. We'll let you know the journey.
By the way, we are still practicing our Tantra love, and I must say that our lovemaking time has been more intense, more passionate, more erotic, more vulnerable, more creative, more energizing than ever before. I think that Elizabeth, particularly, has entered her skin in a whole new way – since our weekend with you and especially since she's been pregnant. She thinks that she is beautiful pregnant (I agree, of course) and very sexy (ditto).
We send all that energy to the baby and to the sacred yoni to do her work when she needs to open wide and let out into our world some new life. We joke back and forth (with layers of seriousness present) about parenthood changing our time together. Any advice? We would love to come to some more weekends (to Costa Rica...). How do those things happen with new demands of a baby? I guess we are on the journey to find out. Our energy is now focused on the new life - filling our new life with our tantra energy.
I hope you had some good weekends following ours and a good, safe, erotic and loving trip to Costra Rica. Happy Holidays as well - after all, the nativity is about God saying "yes" to our flesh, to our bodies, to our sex. Blessings of peace.”
Trevor and Elizabeth
Footnote: Elizabeth and Trevor's baby was born on Saturday May 14, 2005, a bouncing baby girl, named Sophia Teva (Nature's Wisdom). Congratulations and great joy!